Unlocking The Unlived Life Within You

The Unlived Life: Why Your Gap Matters

Most of us have a vision of the life we want, a version of ourselves that feels freer, more fulfilled, and more aligned with what matters most. But there’s often a gap between where we are and where we want to be. In this episode of From Busy to Rich, Justin Lakin and Wes Young explore why that gap is actually the key to growth, not a problem to be solved.

Fueling Growth with Gratitude and Ambition

Wes shares how a quote from The War of Art by Steven Pressfield shaped his perspective: “Most of us have two lives: the life we live and the unlived life within us. Between the two stands resistance.” This resistance is where we grow; by embracing the tension between contentment and ambition, we fuel progress. Wes challenges listeners to practice gratitude by reflecting on their greatest moments over the past decade, creating a sense of appreciation and momentum.

The 90-Day Action Plan: From Dream to Reality

A key takeaway is the importance of breaking down big ambitions into achievable steps. Wes encourages listeners to write down what a "rich life" looks like three years from now, then reverse-engineer it into one-year and 90-day goals. This framework, backed by tools like the Peak Performance Path, helps financial advisors and their clients move beyond survival mode and into intentional, purpose-driven living.

Helping Clients Unlock Their Unlived Life

Justin adds that these conversations aren’t just valuable for advisors, they’re life-changing for clients, too. By asking clients, “What does a rich life look like for you?” and helping them clarify their vision, advisors can shift the conversation from numbers to meaning.

Ready to Start?

Take 20 minutes today to reflect on the unlived life within you and your clients. Then, map your next 90 days. The results might surprise you.